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Failed surgical abortion mumsnet Warm baths, lavender spray, easy-to-digest/prepare food, a friend or Active discussions Sign up Search I don't even know where to post this and I'm all so new. After describing my symptoms he diagnosed me with a uterine infection following the surgery š£. Today I had a surgical abortion with only local anaesthetic only at 6+4. This can increase the risk of infertility or an ectopic pregnancy, where an egg implants GP should be referring you for urgent scan! May be worth ringing where you had abortion for advice and follow up as if it's tissue may lead to complications, however if it is only I had a medical abortion early this year using misoprostol 2 doses orally and 1 dose vaginally accompanied with oxytocin injection š, on 4 weeks old fetus. Crippling pain definitely doesn't sound normal - does it feel like period pain or something else? Bleeding wise I bled a very small amount initially then it Hi everyone, I am about to complete 8 weeks of pregnancy and have pregnancy abort due to no yolk sac seen at 7 week ultrasound. There were about 5-6 other girls there at this point. I knew about the pregnancy from about 5 weeks and had an appointment to book the termination at 6wks so the waiting was the hardest part. I opted for the surgical option as I was too much if a wimp to have the tablet and I took misoprostol 3 doses but I didn't bleed yet it has been two days ,does it mean that it was unsuccessful A surgical abortion using vacuum aspiration is a procedure where a thin tube is inserted through the neck of the womb and gentle suction is used to remove a pregnancy. Failed surgical abortion now 11 weeks pregnant- HELP. I tried twice to have an abortion. PP covered the cost of my surgical procedure because of my first, failed abortion. For the surgical, I was only given laughing gas and I most definitely did feel pain, nothing close to delivering a baby, but still pain. Is it true I canāt get a surgical on the NHS in Scotland? I canāt afford to go private as Iāve found out itās around £3000 š„ŗ I bled a week about 1 day of heavy and the rest was moderate to light/spotting. I was in the actual room for only about 5-10 mins. It hurts to stand or sit in certain ways and I get an extreme spasm in the area at points. OP, can you make sure you get a surgical one? Thatās what I had at around 10 weeks, I believe the one where you take the pills is more painful and traumatic. You wanted an abortion because you knew you weren't ready, nothings changed in that respect. And Iāve taken another digital today and itās still 3+ Iām 4 weeks post abortion this Hi Gina, Iām in a similar position. if any of you have experienced abortion please could you advise me of what is to come. My pill abortion failed and see this post . With all these, I was thinking the abortion was successful. I had a surgical termination at 12/13 weeks. I prayed for this baby for six years and here I am standing in that limbo again. I also happened to have had both surgical as well as medical abortion. Like at the minute that seems worse than the actual procedure. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing Hi all. I was diagnosed with hyperemesis again in this pregnancy and knew i wouldnt be able to cope so i believe i made the right choice. Failed medical abortion 10 replies Workingmumto5 I am now almost 12weeks pregnant with twins and booked in for a surgical on Monday next week. All that is showing is a yolk sack no heart beat . Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) Due to a medical condition I canāt have a medical abortion, only surgical. After the procedure I was fine. I also for record took a digital which is reading 3+ two weeks ago. They gave me one and a few days after the abortion (mine was surgical) I went to a quaint little forest and burnt the picture, then buried the ashes. I went back to the clinic to be told I need to have it surgically removed as there is a lot of it. I found taking the tablets a really horrible experience so Iām really scared about the surgical one, has anyone had one before and could give me some information about it? Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, Took the sensitive pregnancy test they provide 3 weeks post medical abortion it came up faint positive ; These are Amazon bought pregnancy tests Iāve taken today which are very strong. My hormones were everywhere and I would find myself sobbing for what felt like Hi everyone, I am really wanting my 3rd baby now but I'm sorry worried my surgical abortion has effected my ability to carry a baby :(I have two beautiful children ages 3&5 I had no problems carrying them, then I fell pregnancy in may 2019 but due to severe sickness I wasn't able to look after my children and depression soon kicked in, I wasn't thinking clearly hi, I had a medical abortion 4 weeks and 1 day ago. I read for weeks about abortions etc and expected so much more bleeding and clots! Iām so worried about finding out Iām pregnant still in 3 weeks time! Does anybody have any advice? I know I need to wait another 2 weeks before I can test but I donāt want to get an infection or end up having to have a surgical abortion! There was a thread on here not long ago and her termination failed meaning she had to repeat it - but surgical as she was further along. So I did the abortion at home not last Saturday the Saturday before it failed nothing happened then ended up in hospital with suspected eptopic as they couldn't see baby on scan then had to go back a week later to see baby on scan as they didn't read my notes saying I was an abortion case and I had to actually tell the nurse when she was trying to book me in for Surgical abortion at 22 -23 weeks 7 replies Charlietaylor123 · 09/01/2024 09:52 This is my first time posting but right now I feel like I have no one else to talk to and feel very alone. 6 What a difficult situation. Hello I had a surgical abortion at under 7 weeks, I also have a tiled pelvis and had the mirena fitted in. I decided to opt for a surgical abortion rather than having to go through a medical abortion at home, I suffer with very painful periods so was advised the surgical option would probably suit me best. I was 8/9 weeks when i had the abortion, i went for an appointment to discuss my options etc, and booked medical abortion. I honestly was worried it failed, I didn't have I found out I was pregnant, exactly a week ago - my period's often super temperamental and I'd waited for 2 weeks before taking the test! My boyfriend Finally how long have others had to wait between a consultation and a surgical abortion? This pregnancy wasnāt planned and Iām devastated Iām in this position but donāt feel that continuing the pregnancy out of guilt is a good enough reason so Iām wanting to terminate it as soon as I can before I become more emotionally invested and before the embryo grows any I had an abortion 5th jan 2022 surgical, an now the grieve is getting worse the baby would have being due in 3weeks and I canāt help but feel sick to think of what I done Iām devastated, Iām in a loving relationship with 2 kids an at the time I was panicking because my last child was only 14months when had abortion an we as a couple just thought it wasnāt the time I had the surgical option nearly 18 years ago at the age of 24 after the pill failed and I was in and out the same day. I went for a surgical abortion and walked out of theatre because of the pressure and messages he was sending me not do it. Or has the abortion just failed. I can't help on the practical side as I had a surgical abortion at a fairly similar time. This was my biggest fear as I read up before hand that infection following surgical abortion can leave scar tissue / narrowed tubes and affect future fertility. Ive had no issues conceiving, if anything i seem to be super fertile. They left 1/2 the "tissue" inside and half of my I opted for a termination with my 4th child as myself and my partner decided it was the best thing to do for our family. Please don't judge me as i was using protecting properly but it failed and i am in no financial situation to support a child. Hope everything goes well for you and that you get the answer you want. Please don't judge! The description may be a little gruesome and graphic so look away now. I had a surgical abortion when I was 17. I had to have an abortion 2 years ago, basically my son was only 6 months old but it come to light that he has some problems, and they thought they were genetic. Had a scan today and it shows the abortion failed, the baby is still alive! And I'm 13 weeks. That's where I had my consultation, scan and operation. I Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. 18/04/2017 at 11:43 am. It was really traumatic for her. 5 weeks ago . I found out 2 weeks ago at my dating scan we are high risk for t21. Hello, i had a medical abortion at 8 weeks through bpas, I passed some large clots and bled for a few days so thought everything had gone as it should, I did the pregnancy test that they sent 3 weeks later which turned out positive, contacted bpas and went to a clinic for an assessment, they told me I was still pregnant and now 14 weeks I couldnāt believe it. Since a nipt has come back as high risk and with my bloods (1 in 2 chanc the day after the hospital I went back into that panic mode, thinking omg do I really want to continue this if I might have already caused damage and then Iāll have to have a surgical abortion, which made the pain even harder for me. Children are wonderful yes, but bloody hard work, time consuming and expensive. I don't think I can go through with this another week. It doesn't help that the doctors are strongly recommending the surgical route, but also warning me that the more surgeries I have, the greater the risk of uterine adhesions, which "may prevent future pregnancies". OP posts: scans. After this happened I still had sickness but my boobs are not sore anymore. Please someone help me. Took the first tablet Friday and the 4 yesterday. After much debate, we decided a surgical abortion was the best thing to do for our situation. It's felt like forever and really difficult mentally and physically I had an abortion several years ago which was very painful, totally out of it, sweating, contractions, the lot. The D&C also meant that everything was removed. Then last night I woke up and I was bleeding heavily. . I brought her home by train. I took the pills before 10 weeks and they failed. One line means termination successful two lines mean it's failed. I am scared I am having a ecpotic pregnancy which will explain why there were no big clots or tissue. as I remember when I was younger it was painful but wasnāt too bad. The clinic I went to have advised me not to keep the baby but I can't help feeling that it's fate. Lower back pain after surgical abortion 7 replies Excusemyfrench · 03/02/2019 09:48 I had the procedure on Wednesday. I went to the first appt with an open mind but deep down I knew, I think, it was the right decision. I'm looking for experiences really of the surgical vacuum abortion under sedation with local anaesthetic please. This worried me but Marie so torn about late surgical abortion 2 replies sosad90 · 15/05/2024 20:54 I'm currently 15 weeks and 5 days and I've booked dozens of appointments since i found out at 7 weeks and this whole time i've not been able to come to a decision on what to do. Took first pill 18/03 and then two lots on 19/03. I asked at the clinic whether I could have a picture of the ultrasound. I hate my unborn baby. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts I have also had a surgical abortion and regretted it, I cried endlessly with regret. I had given birth, natural birth, to three kids and nothing compares to that pain, nothing at all. I still haven't had my period and me and my partner are trying to get pregnant again, we had been trying 2 days after the abortion. I am in too much discomfort. So I went to my medical abortion appointment on the 5th July. It may not be GA. I contacted them with an online form and received a phonecall back the next day. Even though I deeply regret having them, both times the process was straight forward. I have an appointment booked with the hospital next week for the pre-assessment and the 1st appointment to prepare for the surgical abortion. The provider should provide you with lots of information. On the 6th of October (so 3 weeks ago yesterday) I had a surgical abortion. Both were fine but quite different processes. Take it from me, it's much much better to know for sure so please ask for a referral for a scan to put your mind at rest Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. After a surgical abortion the bleeding should only last 1-2 weeks or so. Am now almost 12 weeks pregnant with twins and booked in for a surgical abortion on Monday. Hi I don't think I've ever added a thread, but I did search the archives when I was making my decision, so thought I'd add my experience to help anyon I had an early surgical abortion on Saturday with LA and it went well. This was perhaps the hardest part of the process. And originally baby's father was going to help out, he has now made it clear he won't. As for the mental side of things, about 2/3 days after the abortion I did feel extremely emotional. Looking back though my pain threshold was not what it is now (been through labours now) and I just didnāt know what to expect. I just wanted to post about the positive experience I had with a surgical abortion at 11 weeks with the NHS. Highly unlikely to be failed I had an incomplete abortion and are currently waiting on a surgical abortion now. They still went ahead with the medical abortion and i haemorrhaged 2 weeks later after retaining product . I think there's a faint line. PIP: A study of 65,045 abortions performed in 5 freestanding surgical units over 100 months time found 46 cases of incomplete abortion. It's been over 10 years and I haven't been back yet. Hi everyone. If you have no idea how far along you are the first step is getting a scan ASAP. That is still 2 weeks away. I got to 10 weeks pregnant booked abortion got there and said I can't do it. 0. I had a surgical abortion 8 years ago. Thank you. I bled heavily for 4 days and spotings went for 10 days too. Hello. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale Hi @sarahb19 I had a surgical abortion a week ago today. I was 7 weeks. I saw someone said that to have the surgical abortion, you should be over 9 weeks so they may not allow me to at this stage. Rushed to hospital, emergency surgery for an incomplete abortion. I just confuses me what came out of me then if the Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. On the nhs site it states the risk for failed SA is 1 . I was dated at 5 and 1/2 weeks on 16/03. I agree. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. 5cm but the I'm glad I found this thread (but sorry you are in this position). Thought it was period then the bleeding stopped. The nurse said it was fairly common as pregnancy hormones can stick around for longer in some people. I also started my adhd meds in the last 3 weeks and have been abit away with the fairyās me and my boyfriend stupidly had sex using the pull out method after week 2 I I've had two abortions - one medical at 6 weeks (the pill, one at the clinic and one at home) and another surgical abortion at around 8 weeks under light sedation. Hey guys. Went home and then 2 days later I decided to go ahead with it. Hello Iāve chosen to go ahead with an abortion , this is not the right time for me to have another child . It will be easier if you can conveniently start your 'miscarriage' and be admitted to hospital while you and he I had an abortion at 7/8 weeks I didn't have any cramps at all and only light bleeding nothing compared to the stories I've read about it so after waiting the 2 weeks i took the pregnancy test given from the hospital it came back positive they got me up for an appointment the same day and done a scan which showed the baby was still there and now I'm 10 weeks Failed surgical abortion trauma. Scared - Surgical abortion at 22 -23 weeks 155 replies Charlietaylor123 · 09/01/2024 10:16 This is my first time posting but right now I feel like I have no one else to talk to and feel very alone. Iām really struggling I must of only been a week and a half pregnant as Iām now 5. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) I started with a mild fever after posting this. So I am all booked in to have a surgical abortion in the morning, and to tell the truth I am petrified. I had a surgical termination just over 4 weeks ago. I sadly had to take tablets to induce a missed miscarriage on Tuesday this week, have passed some clots, and am bleeding like a (light) normal period, but have really not had any pain to speak of, except for some A surgical abortion has been suggested many a time since I first found out I was still pregnant. It was not a decision I took lightly, and I have made peace with the decision Iāve made at this time in my life. I'm 7 weeks pregnant (so will be at least 8 by the time of the abortion) and I'm trying to decide whether to have the medical or the surgical option. considering a termination and they were very clear that if the medical abortion failed then surgical was the only route available as the pregnancy would be severely compromised by having taken the medication. At that point Iād have been 5 & 1/2 to 6 weeks. That was my aim. Following a failed medical abortion, I also had a failed surgical abortion it seems with 4cm of RPOC left in my uterus. Ended up having the surgery and I felt nothing. I think im about 7 weeks. Whereas with a surgical abortion once it's done it's all done. The fact you bled so heavily with big clots makes me think itās very unlikely it didnāt work. Iām so scared of the general Anesthesic. Then bled lightly for about ten days. I am still pregnant and booked in for a surgical procedure next week. Did you have any specific questions? Happy to share my experiences if Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Had to walk across a bit of London to get to station, and she was a bit out of it and I felt like a body guard ensuring she didn't get bumped into. So Iāve recently had a surgical abortion I was 12 weeks and 3 days Iāve been bleeding for a week and 2 days I very much regret my choice and decision, and for the people who have had surgical abortion and tried to get pregnant straight after I was wondering how long it had taken to conceive again? Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) Failed abortion 17 replies Colt300418 · 02/03/2022 11:08 Hi I had a Ma 3weeks ago at 6w. I know how absolutely petrified I was and just hope this might put someoneās mind at ease a little bit. 2 weeks and had abortion 3. Hope it goes well OP whatever happens. I'm supposed to take the oral tablet in about 10mins (24hrs before appointment) and can find very little information on I had a medical abortion which was started on the roll at around 12 but br the time it got to doing it I was somewhere between there and 16 weeks. Hi, so I thought I would post on here to get some advice. The guilt I felt taking the tablets makes me worry how I will cope next week. Can anyone advise how long to wait to get in for surgical abortion? Are the I thought Iād post in here after reading other peopleās experiences with surgical abortions as they helped me loads with anxiety and information around surgical abortions. Thanks Steph. I had a surgical abortion on Friday and had a regular period type bleed. I figured I was pregnant 2 weeks after my period was due and honestly I thought my period was just late until I began getting signs of pregnancy. Took tablets 2 weeks ago for a medical abortion and long story short they didnāt work. Thank you so much for your kind words. All very straight forward, small amount of bleeding on the day followed by a honey/caramel coloured discharge everyday since. I have been gettin Those and every other scenario played in my head for the next week. Anonymous. This is booked for next Thursday. How normal is this? 4 weeks wait for surgical abortion 39 replies Meeko93 · 15/02/2022 13:39 Had my first appointment yesterday with bpas had to drive over 1hr 1/2 for them to only go through the form I did online. I was seen at BPAS who were all fantastic and cannot fault them. Get well soon I'm booked in for a surgical abortion in 10 days. I had gone off with a man more than twice my age. A friend had surgical abortion and was only sedated. Has anyone had any experiences of getting pregnant so soon after a abortion or is it most likley i will get my period first. I have a personal medical termination horror story and would always recommend surgical, but mine were under general (one late missed miscarriage and my first of two terminations before they'd sterilise me). I have 2 young children and the day after I was able to go out as a family to see Father Christmas and the day after that I was caring for my 2 on my own as my husband was at work. To cut a long story short I agreed I would have an abortion as I know how hard it can be as a single parent. It's such a difficult decision to make for anyone finding themselves in that situation. I still think about it three years on but I very much so put it to the back of my mind now. I was wondering if anyone else has had a failed abortion and gone on to have the baby? For my medical abortion (age 19) I was in extreme pain with very heavy bleeding, eventually admitted to a&e and then passed everything the next night whilst on a ward. 2 lines indicates a possible failed abortion. Thank you, I just feel like theyāre trying to make me get a surgical abortion as the pills failed but from my point of view theyāve failed for a reason. Ok the day of the surgery there was one religious protester but she wasn't nasty or aggressive in any Hi, I had a surgical abortion & barely had any pain at all aside from a couple of hours after it was done. @ApplesandBananas21 thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with me. I tried to request a surgical rather than medical abortion in Glasgow at 10 weeks and was told it was medical only to 18 weeks and the leaflet said if you needed a later abortion than this you would be referred to a Trust in England. Clinic said that if GA she'd have had to stay in London overnight. Mumsnet hasn't checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. Mental health being the main issue. i had my daughter at 19 and she is now 13 years old. Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. My DS is 8 so there would be little common ground between him and the baby. I rang the clinic and asked for advice and all they said is the abortion can take up to one week. And shouldnāt drive for 48 hours actually. We Midwives strongly suggested she have a surgical abortion as they thought there would be defects. Unfortunately surgical wasnāt an option here in Scotland and for that Iām so very sad. If you have medical concerns, please consult a healthcare professional. It may be that if it's that quick, I will just go with that. I'm also struggling to go to the toilet but can pass urine fine. Ramping and bleeding for up to 3 days afterwards. I'm 11+2 weeks and have a surgical abortion booked for tomorrow. OP posts: See next See all Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. Hi, Looking for some help, I am pregnant after failed contraception (coil) and we have decided to terminate. I really wanted a surgical purely to lessen the trauma. It could also be residual hormones or retained tissue. You sound like you're afraid of the unknown with the surgical abortion, rather than actually wanting this pregnancy. Not through anything being wrong with the baby, just because you decided to end the pregnancy. 30 Get Mumsnet direct to your inbox Subscribe now Join us Mumsnet doesn't verify the qualifications of users. Managed to speak with a GP over the phone. Get support and advice from a caring community. It means I have a place to go back to if I ever want to visit. In some cases, bleeding commences after taking the medication, but the pregnancy itself continues. Her circumstances were very different (failure of contraception after she slept with someone she knew, but not v well - he refused to have anything to do with her when she told him. Skip to main content Failed Abortion- Continued pregnancy after finding out. 23/07/2017 at 12:14 pm. He is I remember risks of infection, abortion not working, retained products, nothing about perforating my uterus once or even 3 times. The next two days I had very light spotting then the bleeding stopped. Is there a chance itās failed? Please be kind Iāve not stopped crying for weeks. so i have unfortunately had to have three abortions. You might have seen some of my previous posts I have had a failed surgical abortion. My head and heart are completely divided on what to do. Those of you who have gone through surgical awake, you're very brave and strong. I had a SA over four weeks ago. I'm considering the vacuum instead of the pills now BUT I'm petrified of the local anaesthetic injection into the cervix as I've heard it's painful. I had extremely bad violent vomiting and nausea throughout the day. My daughter is 6 months old and the fath Just wanted to post and say I feel your frustration. That doesn't mean the nhs would rule out the surgical abortion. Well, it is a miscarriage. I was absolutely terrified beforehand but it was fine. I obviously just want to get the procedure over with but having read a few peopleās stories of MVPs Iām really scared of it being a scarring experience. so torn about late surgical abortions very late that I was pregnant (15w, failed contraception) I knew that I couldn't cope with another; DP knew he couldn't cope with another. Hi I don't know if I'm posting this on the right place and I'm sorry if I'm not, I had a surgical abortion at 11 weeks 12 days ago. But the problem with me was hyperemesis. Following a heavy period of bleeding of bright fresh blood, the tissue went down to 2. anyway let me know how your getting on š and hope your ok x @Kardelen I was 8 weeks and had a medical abortion. By the time I have that I will be 9 weeks and been waiting 5 weeks. Please please no judgement. It's been a month and half after I've had the op for the abortion i was 11 weeks gone, near enough 12 and had the marina coil put in straight after. The % of failed medical abortions is tiny (something like 1 in 100) and they would usually have no/minimal bleeding. Just be prepared for any outcome. Some minimal pain which was managed with painkillers and I recovered quickly from the GA. Has anyone experienced a failed medical termination and continued and gone full term and delivered a healthy baby? Join pregnancy choices and discuss everything related to terminations and surgical & medical abortions. I had tried to push for surgical but I wasnāt able to however I was 10 weeks when I had mine, I think it depends where your located as reading posts it seems different areas have different requirements for surgical. I honestly donāt know what to do. 19 answers / Last post: 15/08/2017 at 5:36 pm. I had no pain and didnāt bleed much at all, I even worried for a couple of months that it hadnāt been done! I didnāt see the scan, they turned the screen away. Bled very heavily 4 weeks after and had positive pregnancy test. But on Monday night I started getting sharp abdomen pains and have had them on and off since. Hi @lemondrop1x and @Sanityhunt23 Iām due to have a medical abortion next week when I will be 13 weeks. A friend of mine went through with a pregnancy after a failed abortion. Iāve had one medical abortion and one surgical abortion , they were nearly 6 and 11 years ago now . You canāt drive yourself home after a general anaesthetic. I really can't abort a 13 week old fetus, it's just too far along now. On the morning of my procedure, I arrived at the clinic at 9am. I wanted to do the medical way. They're really painful and different to cramps. Coil fitted during it etc. If you have medical concerns, please seek medical attention. Bluthbanana Iām having the exact same experience as you, pregnancy after coil failed, 2 dc and donāt want anymore. My surgical abortion was scheduled one week later, now at nearly 11 weeks. I am writing this post to help anyone searching for honest experiences. X . But I really regretted it and I feel I canāt make my mind up to continue or not for reasons due to abnormalities. To preface this, I was booked for the procedure with sedation, but unfortunately when in clinic I could only have the local. I filled in a form about my medical history then waited to be called. As @Maray1967 says, the rest of the procedure if you had to go to hospital with an incomplete miscarriage is the same. I actually opted for a medical abortion, which failed and now I'm waiting for a surgical one. So it's two weeks since I took my medical abortion pills. Mumsnet doesn't verify the qualifications of users. The health advisor was lovely The idea of opting for this sort of abortion rather than medical abortion is that with medical abortion it can lead to heavy. i need advice asap hopefully today as tomorrow I have my pre op for surgical abortion,, so I have a 23 year old son and a 71/2 month old ,, Iām currently pregnant about 7 week My doctor said it was a surgical abortion. I had read horrible stories about medical abortions and I knew it wasn't for me. He convinced me to go through with it, which in hindsight was absolutely the right decision but but did fuck with my head for a good few years. @MitheringSunday thank you, I guess I just have to wait for my next I found out I was pregnant at 4 weeks, I was unsure what to do but the dad didn't want the baby so I deceided have an abortion it was the hardest thing I have ever done, I was 8 weeks, I had a surgical op, two weeks later I still tested positive so I rang an they said it was just left over hormone effecting the test, four weeks later I was The abortion failed to find out I was still pregnant at 10 weeks with a follow up scan and told baby was 'doing everything it needs to do' healthy and active. I started bleeding about 3 hours after quite heavily for a few hours but by early afternoon and all of today Iāve barely had to change a pad. My baby was 14-15 month old too. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale (more details here) Good evening, Today found out I'm pregnant, thinking it's about 3-4 weeks. I have had a scan at 12 weeks and the specialist raised enough concern as she couldn't determine the feet and right hand how she wanted to. 23/07/2017 at 12:00 pm. It sounds like its to early to show up on the scan, in another week or two it will and hopefully the EPU will be able to discuss the options in terms of termination once they've confirmed what's going on. I went ahead with a surgical procedure at the beginning of After finding out I was pregnant after a failed morning after pill myself and my partner both agreed due to our personal circumstances now was not the right time to have a Thank you, I just feel like theyāre trying to make me get a surgical abortion as the pills failed but from my point of view theyāve failed for a reason. I just donāt know what to think. We had our scan on the 15th which show Mumsnet makes parents' lives easier by pooling knowledge, advice and support on everything from conception to childbirth, from babies to teenagers. When done using local anaesthetic it is known as manual vacuum aspiration or MVA. This can be done using local or general anaesthetic. I was 8 weeks and due to a pre existing medical condition I was only allowed the surgical option under local anaesthetic. I had opted for a surgical abortion under general anaesthetic . I am financially strapped. No tampons/moon cup or similar until her next period Iām afraid, as PP have said while the cervix is still a bit open after the procedure thereās an infection risk, and you can only be sure itās closed once the bleeding has stopped. Iām not sure if theyād even let you do the pills one at this stage. On the first day, I passed out tissue, like heavy tissues, i mean. Reply. didn't bleed or cramp at all until 4 week mark. I just feel no one will give us any answers, staff at hospital have not experienced this before and we don't know what to do. I had a surgical abortion a month ago and have never felt so low and so suicidal in my entire life. I didn't have any sedation, and only had local anaesthetic as an injection into my cervix. After advice or similar experiences please. Has anyone had to d Hi all. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, so if you buy something through our posts, we may get a small share of the sale Myself had a surgical abortion roughly 2 months ago! I was not in the right place emotionally to have another child so that's why I decided an abortion was best, to make things worse I was in the middle of moving areas. Also, HCG count has Please help! I had a surgical abortion. Just what I want to hear. I'm just wondering if anyone on here had an abortion after the 15/16 week mark. The pregnancy was quite far along and she decided to keep the baby. My story is similar to yours. I never wanted her but my partner made me feel guilty if I had an abortion. I answered lots medical questions and discussed options. Mumsnet carries some affiliate marketing links, I had a surgical abortion at about 6 weeks - it was about as early as they were willing to do a surgical one. I had a surgical abortion at a bpas clinic 7 years ago on the nhs. Surgical abortion - is it an option at the moment? 12 replies Luckyme30 · 06/02/2022 13:48 Iām only 7 weeks pregnant and have requested a call back with BPAS regarding a termination. I've had to do a pregnancy test today to see if it was successful. Nearly 3/4 were 8 week or less pregnancies (dating from last monthly period), 20% were 6 weeks or less. I donāt really know what my question is, Iām just a bit scared and I have read the other threAds here about failed medical abortions so I know there are quite a few ladies who experienced it. However it has failed. A surgical when i was 15 (17 years ago) a medical when i was 16 and another surgical two weeks ago. I had a medical abortion due to health issues. I had an abortion recently (already have one DS 12mo) and am at college. You do not have to forgive your boyfriend. I went for a private scan Failed abortions can be hard to process psychologically. I already have other health problems including interstitial cystitis and inflammation of the bowel, amongst other things. There have sadly been many people who have become very unwell, and even a case of a woman who sadly died, due to taking the pills when being further along in pregnancy than they thought they were. So we've decided in the end to have a surgical abortion. Among the successfully completed abortions 44% were 8 weeks or less and 6% were less than 6 weeks. I did this, nothing much happened I just felt very unwell and ended up in a&e. One Currently 10weeks pregnant and cannot mentally undergo a medical abortion. They have booked me for a scan first. msi surgical abortion 11 replies rosekate203 · 20/06/2023 11:16 Hi all, Found out I was unexpectedly pregnant last week. I wasnāt given any pills before my surgical ablation and it was done very quickly. I have since experienced awful trapped wind pain in my abdomen and -tmi- rectal area. My 2 options are to have an MVP under local anaesthetics next Thursday or wait until the 12th of May for a general. I had the surgical booked for just under 2 weeks later Sending you courage and compassion. Was a long time ago but recall vaguely that pain afterwards was like bad period pain. Then two days later suffered a severe bleed just like a miscarriage. I went for a private scan yesterday and the fetus is growing with a very strong heartbeat and my bleeding has basically come to a holt. While it's important that people can share their feelings - in any way - post termination, please do also be aware that these threads also attract people who are (a) anti-abortion and know they can post here to tip the balance for future women who do an internet search for 'regret abortion' and (b) people who like one poster here sound like they are living anyway sorry to hear this isnāt going to plan for you. On my leaflet it said to take the test two weeks after taking the first pill which is what I've done. I went for a medical abortion and took the tablets at just over 8 weeks. I conceived 3 weeks after my surgical abortion, 34 weeks now and no problems so far! I remember being afraid it would hurt my fertility but the nurse talked me through loads of research and studies and if it was done by a certified doctor etc. ) and it was very difficult for her at the time, but she wouldn't have been without her son At the scan I was told I had a lot of retained tissue and to repeat the medical abortion again with tablets. I still can't get over what happened. I also had a coerced abortion, and still, decades later, after bereavements and other difficult life events, it is definitely the most traumatic experience of I hope you're good today. The proper term for a m/c is spontaneous abortion, the only difference is that yours won't be spontaneous. You will honestly be fine don't worry šŗ Not to scare you OP but I had a failed medical abortion that didnāt take effect for two weeks. I know it feels like the baby survived against all the odds, but that doesn't mean the baby is still healthy. So if anyone has had a failed op, followed by a successful one, I'd love to hear about it. I had an surgical abortion 6weeks+3days ago for personal reasons. The fact you're Complications of abortion can include: If a womb infection is left untreated, there's a small chance that it could cause pelvic inflammatory disease (PID). Do not accept the pills by post system without a scan first. It will get easier , you've been through a traumatic experience its all not long happened and is difficult to mentally and emotionally get your head round being pregnant and then not being. If you have the surgery you could say someoneās collecting you after or arrange a taxi? Please discuss this with the staff and see what options you have. cldwoiglmuofwyoqqixwiciezcwhtsbtldlkjpvjdvncefrnfa
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